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"I'm not looking for a relationship right now" In other words, he's looking for a one-night stand. If he says this to you and you remain interested, he'll assume you are down for casual sex. "My wife and I are essentially divorced" The guy isn't happy in his marriage but doesn't plan to leave his wife unless he has a new girl lined up and ready to go. "You're a great friend" No guy wants to be friend-zoned by a lady he's attracted to. If he starts talking about being friends before you ever mentioned it, he has no romantic interest in you. Sorry. "The economy is horrible" While that may be true, blaming the economy early on in a relationship is his way to tell you that he's unemployed and isn't too interested in finding a job anytime soon. "I'm a virgin by choice" Ninety-nine times out of a hundred, a "virgin by choice" is actually a guy who is so s

 Yesterday was convocation in University of Lagos. Congratulations to all graduands, you pulled through, i wish you all in best as you move over to your next phase in life.

Happy Birthday to one of Nollywood's finest actor and producer, Desmond Elliot.

This is it… I have gone this far, it's too late to turn back and start afresh. I had always known this would be the end of it all, but I just couldn't stay away. I tried to stop, but each time I fall deeper into it. This had been my cycle of pain, regret and slavery. After trying fruitlessly to overcome, I finally gave up, I realised I was far worse than I had started out. Everyone is driven by the thought of a bright future that lies ahead, as for me: who am I kidding? Mine is bleak and gloomy. I asked for this, this is my own doing. I remember the very first time; “just once”, I told myself but I found myself doing the same thing the second and the third time; “I can stop whenever I want to” but I was only fooling myself, now I am swallowed up by it. You might say it is an addiction but it is much more, it is slavery. As I wallow in my pain and misery, I stumble on the greatest news I have ever heard; it is not too late, I can start afresh. I heard Jesus could chang

You will agree with me that the latest fashion trend is colour blocking. The art of combining and playing with different contrasting colours and making them into a beautiful outfit. There is a thin fine line between the fabulous fashion colour blocking and the disastrous fashion colour crashing. These days all you see a lot of people walking around “colour-crashing”; in order not to find yourself in that fashion trap, here are some tips on colour blocking:  1)  For starters, you can buy dresses that are already colour-blocked, this will make you look like a fashion genius without you even knowing it . 1)       Wear colours that suit you: This is a key point. Colours worn on your top half, or anywhere near your face, reflect light upwards and this has a huge impact on your overall appearance. The right colours will enhance your complexion, bring out the colour in your eyes and make you look more youthful and generally radiant. The wrong colours can of course do

 Yes, it is the month of LOVE, its FEBRUARY. ... lovers, chocolate, cakes, gifts,roses and all other things.Love is in the air. valentine is the second most celebrated day after Christmas.  Everyone is excited except me, don't get me wrong, i don't hate val's day, its just that what is the use of getting all excited and worked up about it when i don't have a lover to share it with. i know am not the only one feeling this way, there are people out there who feels the same way too. either you are not in a relationship or you are in a relationship with an asshole, whichever way it is, you know you a'int getting any love and affection this val.  The most important thing is; val's day is about love, instead of getting depressed and feeling lonely, all you have to do is show love to yourself. Nobody can do a better job at loving you apart from you. so, be kind to yourself, be affectionate to yourself, it is a way of saying " i can care  for myself"  well